Everyone gets their panties in a bunch when people start to
talk about binding spells. They believe that it is unethical, or immoral to
make someone fall in love with them. They feel that you are taking away
people’s free will, when you use magic to force someone to love you. I tell
these people to take off their rose colored glasses. People all around the
world, in particularly in Africa are married against their will. Girls, no
older than fourteen are forced to marry men who are twice or even three-times
their age. Furthermore, it wasn’t that long ago where women were forced to
marry for support, guidance, and freedom from spinsterhood and shame. So
essence, marriage is a spell. It involves a ceremony that entails two people
coming together to work as one. Naturally, if both people are on the same page,
then the marriage has a better chance of working. And when two people are not
on the same page, the marriage is doomed to fail. This same concept applies to
love binding spells.
The secret of a successful love binding spells
What happens a lot in relationships is that one person is
working so hard on the relationship, while the other is not. This could be
because of an age difference. In many cases, women mature faster than men, and
may want to settle down and enjoy a monogamous relationship. However, their
boyfriends have other plans. These women think that their men are just
stringing them along. In truth, these men may have problems with intimacy. I
wrote an article way back in the day, comparing relationships to bubble gum. We
like relationships in the beginning because of the juiciness, the freshness,
and the excitement. When we first start dating someone we are experiencing a
great deal of stimuli. Falling in love causes our bodies to emit certain feel
good hormones that makes us feel like we are on a natural high. Then as the
relationship progresses, our relationships, along with the gum gets stale,
hard, and difficult to chew. So what do we do? We spit it out and put another
piece into our mouth. We do exactly the same thing in our relationships.
Whenever things get hard, we want to spit it out. We want to quit. This is the
reason why we are serial monogamous. Or, why we stray and want to cheat.
There is a thin line between love and hate.
I wrote another article about Pandora’s box. In that
article, I talked about how Pandora opened a forbidden box and everything evil
sprang out. I wrote that the same thing happens to us in relationship when that
special someone comes with the key to open up our hearts. Everything falls out.
We feel loved, but with love come the fear of abandonment, of loneliness, of
rejection, of disappointment. The sad truth of the matter is that you cannot
have one without the other. So dealing with the juicy part is fun. However,
when things start to get stale, that’s when the relationships gets hard. It is
at this time, that we have to start to deal with feelings that we really don’t
want to feel. This is the reason why there are hot and cold times in
relationships, or why people start to pull away. They are overwhelmed by sudden
emotions that they don’t want to feel.
The dangers of doing a binding spell
It’s dangerous to do love spells on people who are not ready
and willing to deal with their own issues of intimacy. Yes, the binding spell
may make it difficult to pull away. However, if you get them to face their
demons when they aren’t ready, they are going to hate you for it! We have all
heard the horror stories of how loving binding spells have gone bad. It’s
happens because one, people were bounded against their will, and second, these
people were forced to deal with emotions that they weren’t ready to deal with
yet.
Oshun and Chango
Oshun understood this when she was with Chango. She knew
that Chango was stuck, he couldn’t reach the level of enlightenment without
understanding the power of love. However, in order for Chango to understand
love, he had to feel it in its full capacity. This meant that Chango also had
to feel the loneliness, the rejection, the fear of abandonment, and all the
feelings that come along with being in love. However, Oshun was there to
minimize the impact. She helped him through it. She helped him get over this
hump, as a result of this, Chango loved her more than anything else. He loved
her so much so that he was binded to her for life. This is the same concept of
love, healing, and support that you have to bring into your relationships. By
doing this you can create a spiritual bond that will last a life-time. You can
get started with the process by implementing the following spell.
Voodoo doll binding spell
1.
Take and dress two voodoo dolls to represent you
and your lover.
2.
Dress and ornament them as needed.
3.
Wrap the dolls in herbs or essential love oils (rose,
lavender, chamomile)
Wrap
the dolls in fabric and keep them together for as long as you would like the
love to last.
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