Getting
over heartbreak.
Getting
over heartbreak is hard. I have read a lot of other blog posts, articles, and
I’ve watched YouTube videos, only to receive the same answers. Breakups are
hard, you will cry a lot, you will be in mourning. Blah. Blah. Blah. I think of
breakups as detoxing from a brain inducing chemical. In my other article, How to cast voodoo love spells, I
talk about the act of falling in love. When we fall in love, our brains produce
a series of feel good hormones such as vasopressin, serotonin, dopamine, and
adrenaline. So when you’re in love, you’re on a natural high. It is a feeling
of elation and ecstasy that surpasses any recreational of pharmaceutical drug.
Sadly, people detox from love, just like they would detox from a dangerous mind
altering substance. When people detox from drugs such as cocaine, crack, and
heroine, their bodies’ go through withdrawal symptoms. The same thing happens
when we fall out of love. Our bodies are no longer producing those feel good
chemicals. This not only puts us in a state of desperation (I have to have him
or else). It put us in a state of mourning. We often feel like we’re dying, or
a part of us has died. The agony of falling out of love, coupled with the
suppressed emotions and trauma is completely unbearable. We will do anything to
stop the pain, including fantasizing about our ex-boyfriends and past lovers.
How
to stop obsessing over someone?
Sadly,
most of the women who call me, wanting love spells, are the women who are
obsessing over an ex-lover. In my other article, Free and Easy Love Spells, I talk about
how the mind can’t differentiate between an experienced that is imagined from
an experienced that is real. So, when you break up with someone, and you still
fantasize and think about him in a romantic way, your body is producing the
same feel good hormones that it did when you were with him. This is why it
takes a long time for people to get over the heartache. We have become addicted
to a certain kind of emotion and chemical reaction. We have developed a bad
habit that has become way too difficult to break. Sadly, there are millions of
people all over the world who are still in love with their ex. Breaking this
addiction, or telling someone that they’re obsessed, is a difficult thing to
do. People would rather choose to live in an illusion that offers some kind of
pleasure, than a reality that is painful.
How
to deal with heartache?
The
best way to get over heartbreak is to understand that pain translates into
growth. I know, there are a of lot feel good, New Age hippies that tell you that
you’re supposed to feel good, all the time. In truth, you’re supposed to
address the pain. We have to understand that it is the pain that is driving us
to seek out the wrong partners. After all, relationships are mirrors; please
read my article, How to save your marriage using the 7 Essene Mirrors. We’ve gotten into the bad habit of sedating our
pain, in particularly in the United States. We not only sedate our pain with
prescription pills, but we also sedate our pain with escapism, casual sex,
alcohol, recreational drugs, etc. These dysfunctional behaviors not only stop
us from healing, but also inhibit us from getting the love that we deserve.
Here’s
a Goddess Diana Spell to heal a broken heart
The
Roman Goddess is perhaps one of the most misunderstood yet––the most worshipped
Goddess in Europe. In fact, no deity was associated more with witchcraft during
the “Burning Times” then Diana. She is known as the huntress and the warrior.
Most importantly, she is known as the as the Goddess of Light and Fire. She was
honored at the Festival of Torches that was normally celebrated from August 13th
to the 15th According to legend, many of the witches who were burned
at the stake, didn’t really die. Rather, the fire worked to burn away their
impurities, and much like the phoenix bird that is reborn from fire and ashes,
they were reborn as omnipotent and powerful spirits. Fire is an earth element
that can be used to burn away your impurities, your pain, and trauma from past
relationships.
- Get it all out.
- Write down all the pain that you’ve experienced from
your past relationships on a piece of paper.
- Use a torch or a long match to set the piece of paper
on fire.
- Do this on a full moon, preferably in August.
- Petitioning The Goddess Diana during a Friday the 13th
in August is most ideal.
So
once you’ve gotten rid of the negative energy. You want to start to fill your
heart up with positive energy. Remember, magic is all about striking the
perfect balance.
Using
Ruby Stones for healing!
Ruby
stone is ideal for stimulating the heart chakra. The stone is also a powerful
shield against psychic attacks and vampirism. In essence, this stone will help
stop the obsession. It will help you to be clearer while stimulated your pineal
gland. This is an important stone, simply because you don’t want to waste your
energy supporting an illusion. Besides, you can use all those same thoughts, emotions,
and hormones, to manifest a new and (real) lover.
- You can take a ruby stone and put it on your altar
- You can petition the Goddess Diana to enchant the stone
for you.
- Wear the stone close to your heart, to stimulate the
heart chakra
- Continue this process until your mind is clear.
- In time, the loneliness, emptiness, and pain should go
away.
It's
important to get over heartbreaks quickly so we don't waste our energy on
mourning, but use it for healing and manifesting a new love!
http://clairvoyantmagic.com/2016/06/13/get-heartbreak-using-ruby-stones/
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