Healing spells for the broken heart.

Do you think that you’ll never find love again? Do you feel like you’ve wasted your best years on someone who didn’t love you or appreciate you? Do you believe that you will never love anyone, the same way that you loved your spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend or lover? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you’re in the right place. In this article, I am going to give you a short ritual on how you can heal a broken heart and find the love that you truly deserve.  

I’ve had my heart broken, and yes, I’ve broken hearts. I guess that it is all part of the process of dating and being in relationships. Throughout this process, I often wondered why people turn bitter and hateful toward one another. I often get many phone calls from bitter men and women who want to curse their spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend/ lover, because they believed that they did them wrong. I can’t even begin to write about all the divorces that turn ugly and evil. Breakups are hard, falling out of love is even harder. So what is it about love that makes us go crazy, and compels us to do serious harm to the people we used to love. The answer is simple.  

We have to look at the legend of Pandora’s box.  I am a big fan of Greek and Roman mythology. I especially love the story where Pandora approaches her lover Epimetheus with a jar––it wasn’t a box. The box was locked and came with a key, and message that said, do not open. Naturally, Pandora was curious and opened the box. When she did this, everything bad flew out of the box, envy, sickness, hate, and disease. Pandora tried to close the box, but it was much too late. Epimetheus storms into the room and sees that Pandora is weeping. He walks over to the box and sees that it has been opened. But just right when he tries to close it again, a little bug flies out in the name of hope.

Contrary to popular belief, the underlying moral of this story is to follow directions, or that our curiosity for the unknown might destroy us. This story represents the process of two people falling in love. People normally keep all of their bad emotions locked up in their heart, only to be released when someone comes along, and opens our heart with a magic key. This key releases all the negative emotions that have been trapped inside of us for so long. We love the feeling of love, but love comes at a hefty price. With love, we also get jealousy, envy, fear, and discontentment. All of these emotions rise up from the recesses of our subconscious mind. We fail to understand that the person who has the key to our hearts, is also the person who can heal our wounds––wounds that have inhibited us from loving fully. Then, we engage in the ultimate battle between love and fear. Do we surrender to the love that our partner is giving us? Or do we succumb to the fears that have inhibited us our whole lives?

When we surrender to our fear, we begin to develop hostile and very disparaging feelings toward our spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend. These feelings often amount to terrible breakup/separations or ugly divorces where couples literally hate one another. This disdain can even erupt into violence, emotional, and verbal abuse. In many situations, people close off, vowing to lock their hearts up forever, so that no one can ever release all their terrible emotions with that magic key.  This heartbreak doesn’t have to come from a spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend. Our first heartbreaks normally come from our parents and childhood friends.

I get a lot of women who contact me and tell me that they feel like they were cheated. These women feel like they’ve never really experienced love. This happens, because women have never taken the time to heal the darkness that is buried inside of the deep recess of their soul. Then, they scoff and tell me that they don’t have time. They’re already middle aged, and most of their youth has been wasted on men who never really cared for them. This is when I have to explain to them that there is a difference between quantity and quality. There are so many people who based the success of a relationship on how many years a couple has been together. But sadly, many of these couples don’t have divine relationships. These couples are together for mere convenience and don’t love or even respect one another. So it is not the time that people are together. Rather, it is the connection and the bond that two people share.

If you’ve lost love, been cheated, felt betrayed, used, and rejected. Know, that they ancestors are going to give you all the things that you’ve lost. Once you take the proper steps to heal, the ancestors won’t just give you a relationship, but they’ll give you someone who truly comes from God. You will have the blessings, to love harder, and deeper, than many couples who have been married for decades. You will feel love on such a deep level, that it will be enough to sustain you, above all else. Here’s how.

Oshun healing spells

1.     Draw a bath filled with warm water

2.     Add Grains of Paradise, some cinnamon sticks, cloves, and some warm honey.

3.     Add the petals from a yellow rose

4.     Enter the bath and ask Oshun to heal your broken heart.

Healing spells for the broken heart is all about addressing past hurts, and deep seated buried emotions that may be destroying your relationship.