Does your man have a wandering eye? Is he in the bathroom,
secretly checking his cell phone? Did he come up missing, yet again? You know
something is wrong. Your female intuition is screaming that he is a cheater.
Only, you can’t let him go. You’ve invested too much time, energy, and love
into the relationship. Well, rest assured, because in this article, I am going
to tell you how to cast a voodoo love spell that will put an end to your
spouse’s extramarital affairs.
Why do men cheat?
First things first, you have to understand that him cheating
has very little to do with you. I’ve counseled a lot of men in my career. From
this experience, I learned that men who cheat really do love their wives or
girlfriends, they adore their children, and they don’t want their relationship
to end. So, as women, we think its stupid to risk everything to have an affair.
But we as women are thinking logically, while men who cheat are not. To make a
long story short, men cheat because they’re damaged.
How to keep your man from cheating?
In my other article, Free and Easy Love Spells, I talk about
the suppression of the divine feminine essence in women, but also in men. In my
other article, How to Save your Marriage, using the Seven Essene Mirrors, I
write about how all of our relationships are mirrors of who we are inside. It
is important to understand that flings, trysts, are more than just casual
sexual encounters. They are a man’s attempt to heal a part of himself that is
weakened, broken, damaged, or sick. Many
men suffer from the backlash of trauma that they experienced in their
childhood. And according to the Seven Essene Mirrors, a man will seek out all
of the things that he lost, had stolen, or had taken away in his youth.
What’s the real reason why men have affairs?
This is often the case with men, who were fat when they were
younger. Or they struggled with being cool or likeable. When they were
teenagers, women didn’t find them attractive, but as they grew older, women
decided that they liked them more. This is the case with men who come into a
lot of power later in life. They marry when they have little to nothing, but
change when they come into power and riches. A man can be happily married.
However, there is still a big part of him that is going to be pulled toward the
women who rejected him in his past. It is important to understand that the more
power a man has, the more susceptible that he is to having an affair. This is
because a lot of men suffer from issues of inadequacy, self-doubt, and
insecurity.
Men who cheat have mommy issues.
What do I mean when I say mommy issues? I mean that these
men have an energetic imbalance of yin/yang energies. In fact, the feminine energy that is inside
of them is suppressed; this makes it difficult for men to even have a
conversation. I’ve gotten so many complaints from women who say that their
husbands, lovers, boyfriends don’t talk to them. It’s not because they’re
claiming up and don’t want to talk, it’s just that they don’t know how. As
women, we are very in-tune with our emotions,––men on the other hand, are not.
So they act out, and much like a crying a baby, we women have to discern what’s
wrong. We need to figure out if he’s in pain, where the pain is, and how we can
fix it. Most importantly, we women have to know if and when they’re hungry.
Men who cheat are hungry for affection and love.
The suppression of the feminine essence in men, makes them
dependent on women for sexual fulfillment. When I say sexual fulfillment, I
mean that men need to be with women because that’s the only way they know how
to get feminine energy. They cannot generate feminine energy themselves, so
they are constantly looking to take it from other women. I get women who
complain that their husbands want so much attention, or that he wants to have
sex, all the time. These women also complain that their husbands expect them to
fulfill ALL of their needs. Women who are also wives become overwhelmed,
because one person just can’t do it all. Well, not until now!
Here’s what you can do when your husband cheats!
You need to reach out to the powerful Orisha Yemaya. Yemaya
is considered the preverbal mother who rules over the fishes and the sea. She
is often depicted as a mermaid. There are some pictures that depict her as a voluptuous
woman, with a swollen belly, and full breast.
Metaphorically, Yemaya is a deity who not only represents fertility, but
also chastity, and spiritual growth. Her breasts are full, because she has
enough milk to feed all the children on earth. She also has enough fish in the
water to feed the earth ten times over.
Petitioning Yemaya is going to help your husband remove his energetic
blocks.
Yemaya represents the motherly love that is going to help
him tap into his divine feminine power, help with his issues of inadequacy and
insecurity, heal him from previous traumatic events, and help him become a more
balanced and enlightened individual.
1.
The best time to start this ritual is a Saturday
after or during a full moon.
2.
Start by giving offering to the beautiful Orisha
Yemaya. Make sure that you decorate her altar with her favorite colors, which
is blue. Also be sure to decorate your
altar with white flowers, quartz, crystals, pearls, and coral.
3.
Fill a vise up with salt water and put in on
your altar
4.
Give Yemaya offerings of sweet fruit such as,
watermelon, plantain and or bananas.
5.
Sit in front of your altar for seven days and
ask Yemaya to heal him of his wounds and to help him balance the yin/yang
energies.
6.
Ask Yemaya to give him the motherly love/energy
that he needs to heal, and to become a better person.
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