October 1st is the New Moon of Libra. Naturally, when
we think about Libras, we think about the scales tipping from one side or the other.
However, the astrological sign of Libra doesn’t just involve balance. It also
involves marriage, synchronicity, and partnerships. So if you feel like you’re
settling in your relationship, can’t get your partner to commit, can’t
communicate with your partner, or worse yet, you don’t have a partner, watch
this video. In this video, I will explain why the best marriages work when you love
yourself.
Beyoncé’s video lemonade
I get a lot of people who tell me that they want to be
married. Or that they want to be in a relationship. Then, I have to respond and
say that they want to be happily married, or they want to be in a loving
relationship. There’s a difference. So when it comes to magic and manifesting
we need to be as specific as possible. Why? We understand that we need to be
careful about what we wish for, because there are a lot of people who aren’t
happily married. Let’s look at Beyoncé and Jay Z, for example. I love Beyoncé’s
album Lemonade. I particularly like the video and song, Hold Up. In it, she’s walking around looking very beautiful in a
yellow dress. However, the one thing that I love about this video is that she’s
walking around with a giant baseball bat in her hand. In her rage, she’s
swinging the bat and busting car windows, and fender benders. Then, there are
the reoccurring lyrics, would you rather
look crazy or hurt. Beyoncé ends this video by driving a four-wheeler over
a row of tiny toy cars. I believe that this video is very powerful because it
describes a great deal of hardships that we not only have in marriages, but
also in relationships.
We got to eliminate the threat!
So Beyoncé is looking incredibly beautiful and elegant,
while carrying around this giant bat. Of course, Beyoncé is an artist so she
understands the importance of juxtaposition. Juxtaposition is an artistic effect
where you have a huge disparaging contrast of two or more central elements or
themes. Naturally, the contrast in Beyoncé’s video symbolizes the two different
levels of relationships. We have the first level, which is the primal level.
This is the level where we get into relationships purely for survival. On the
primal level, relationships are more or less a means of self-preservation. For
example, our cave woman ancestor literary needed a man to survive. She needed
him to go out and get food while she was pregnant. She needed to be sure that
he was going to be strong enough and dedicated enough to take care of her. Our
cavewomen ancestors knew that he caveman husband died, that she too would die,
and her offspring would have little chance of surviving alone.
Fatal Attraction and relationships
Our caveman ancestors had a whole different way of dealing
with marriage and extra marital affairs. If our cavewomen ancestors thought
that her husband was having an affair, she would clunk his mistress over the head
until she died. If our caveman ancestors thought that his wife, was having an
affair, he would clunk the man over the head, killing him. So our caveman and
cavewomen ancestors solved most of their problems by just eliminating the
threat. They didn’t like somebody, they killed them. If they didn’t want
anybody around, they killed them. If someone annoyed them, they killed them. Today, many of us are still pre-programmed
with these primal instincts. These primal instincts are the behaviors that we
inherited from our ancestors. These primal instincts are our default settings
that ensure our survival. However, there is just one problem with these
settings. They only ensure our survival. They don’t ensure our happiness.
The enlightened relationships
That’s when the other type of relationship comes in. These
are the relationships that involve two enlightened human beings. These are the
types of relationships where we work on happiness, fulfillment, and bliss–– and
not just survival. So the whole concept of marriage is to make the transition
from a primal relationship, to an enlightened one. Sadly, many people are
unable to make this transition. Why? These people are unable to make this
transition because of fear. Iyanla Vanzant said it best when she said that
there are only two primary emotions, love and fear. Fear, keeps you trapped in
these primal relationships, while love, lifts you to a level of euphoria and
bliss. So many of us live in fear. We live in fear that our partners are going
to abandoned us. We live in fear that our partner is going to neglect us and
leave us for someone else. We settle in relationships and make all kinds of
self-sacrifices, because we are afraid of telling people how we actually feel.
We are afraid of asking for what we really want, because we are afraid of
losing the little bit of love that we are receiving. So we don’t get our needs
met. We put up with shit, we really shouldn’t put up with. Or, we bury our
heads in the sand and choose to live a life that is filled with denial and
illusions.
Love is on the opposite side of fear.
It takes a hell of a lot of courage to love. There are some
people who say that love is like a muscle, that can only be strengthened when
flexed. So we have to begin to flex this muscle by not just overcoming our
fears, but also by dealing with confrontations. Now, when I say confrontations,
I am not telling you to go out and butt heads, and pick fights. I am telling
you to deal with the internal conflict that is simmering inside of you. So in
essence, the first marriage, takes place inside of you.
Marrying yourself
There is this whole trend of people marrying themselves.
Dennis Rodman was the first person to get dressed up in a gown and marry
himself. Then, others soon followed. However, the concept of marrying yourself
is not just a trend, or an attempt
to get attention, and fans. It’s a process that involves
spiritual evolution, where you’re merging the yin/yang and positive/negative
aspect of yourself.
We can also see this in mythical marriages such as Shakti
and Shiva and Oshun and Chango. Now, I am not telling you to marry yourself,
that’s ridiculous. I am telling you to marry the contrasting elements of your
body and soul. Marry the yin/yang, marry the positive and negative. How do you
do this? You do this by confronting your fears. So when you confront your
fears, you’re going to get out of survival mode, and into enlightened mode. So
I am going to give you two spells. The first one is for those who are already
married. The second one is going to be for women who want to be happily
married. Now, both of these spells should be performed on September 30th,
12:38pm CST and 11:38pm EST.
Love and Enlightenment spells
1.
Take a double action red and black reversible
candle.
2.
Write down all the things that you want your
relationship/marriage to be
3.
Write down all of the fears that you think are
stopping you from having this relationship
4.
Light the candle and focus on healing the
relationship.
5.
The goal is to have an enlightened relationship
Second step for men/women who want to get married.
Proposal spell:
1
Remove an ace of diamonds
from a brand new deck of cards and place it on a dish.
3
Place a ring on the plate
Place it on top of the playing card and burn.
Note, ring doesn’t have to be the actual wedding
ring. However, it is important to make sure that the ring fits your finger.
Improve your marriage, or worked to get married using this
Libra New Moon Ritual!
http://clairvoyantmagic.com/2016/09/19/marriage-spellritual-libra-new-moon/
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